How i wish you will take heed of this kind and
appealing piece of writing. it will really go far in shaping the future you
will ever want.
1.
Appreciate
the great people and things in your life. –
Sometimes we don’t notice the things others do for us until they stop doing
them. Don’t be like that. Be grateful for what you have, who loves
you, and who cares for you. You’ll never know how much they mean to you
until the day they’re no longer beside you. Truly appreciate those around
you, and you’ll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life,
and you’ll find that you have more of it to live.
2.
Ignore
other people’s negativity. – If you allow
people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of
balance and in the negative before you know it. Ignore unconstructive,
hurtful commentary. No one has the right to judge you. They may
have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going
through. You do not have control over what others say; but you do have
control over whether or not you allow them to say these things to you.
3.
Forgive
those who have hurt you. – I forgive
people, but that doesn’t mean I trust them. I just don’t have time to
hate people who hurt me, because I’m too busy loving people who love me.
The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the
strongest. The first to move forward is the happiest. Be
brave. Be strong. Be happy. Be free.
4.
Be
who you really are. – If you’re lucky enough to have
something that makes you different from everybody else, don’t change.
Uniqueness is priceless. In this crazy world that’s trying to make
you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self.
And when they laugh at you for being different, laugh back at them for being
the same. It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but it’s worth
it. Being YOU is worth it!
5.
Choose
to listen to your inner voice. –
Life is a courageous journey or nothing at all. We cannot become who we
want to be by continuing to do exactly what we’ve been doing. Choose to
listen to your inner voice, not the jumbled opinions of everyone else. Do
what you know in your heart is right for YOU. It’s your road, and yours
alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.
And be sure to appreciate every day of your life. Good days give you
happiness, bad days give you experience, and the worst days give you the best
lessons.
6.
Embrace
change and enjoy your life as it unfolds. –
The hardest part about growing is letting go of what you were used to, and
moving on with something you’re not. Sometimes you have to stop worrying,
wondering, and doubting, and have faith that things will work out. Laugh
at the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy your life as it
unfolds. You might not end up exactly where you intended to go, but
eventually you will arrive precisely where you need to be.
7.
Choose
your relationships wisely. – The best
relationships are not just about the good times you share, they’re also about
the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love
you” in the end. And loving someone isn’t just about saying it every day,
it’s showing it every day in every way. Relationships must be chosen
wisely. Don’t rush love. Wait until you truly find it. Don’t
let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don’t
belong with. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re
lonely. A great relationship is worth waiting for.
8.
Recognize
those who love you. – The most memorable people in
your life will be the ones who loved you when you weren’t very loveable.
Pay attention to who these people are in your life, and love them back, even
when they aren’t acting loveable.
9.
Love
yourself too. – If you can love children, in
spite of the messes they make; your mother, in spite of her tendency to nag;
your father, even though he’s too opinionated; your sibling, even though she’s
always late; your friend, even though he often forgets to return what he
borrows, then you know how to love imperfect people, and can surely love
yourself.
10.Do things your future self will thank you for. – What you do every day matters more than
what you do every once in a while. What you do today is important because
you are exchanging a day of your life for it. Make sure it’s worthwhile.
11. Be
thankful for all the troubles you don’t have. –
There are two ways of being rich: One is to have all you want, the other is to
be satisfied with what you have. Accept and appreciate things now, and
you’ll find more happiness in every moment you live. Happiness comes when
we stop complaining about the troubles we have and offer thanks for all the
troubles we don’t have. And remember, you have to fight through some bad
days to earn the best days of your life.
12. Leave enough time for fun. – Sometimes you need to take a few steps back
to see things clearly. Never let your life become so filled with work,
your mind become so crammed with worry, or your heart become so jammed with old
hurts or anger, that there’s no room left in them for fun, for awe, or for joy.
13. Enjoy the little things in life. – The best things in life are free.
There is absolute joy and wonder to be had in the simplest of moments.
Watching the sunset over the horizon or spending time with a family member. Enjoy
the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the
big things.
14. Accept the fact that the past is not
today. – Don’t let the past steal your
present and future from you. You might not be proud of all the things
you’ve done in the past, but that’s okay. The past is not today.
The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased. It can only be
accepted. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in
our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and
you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.
15. Let go when you must. – It’s not always about trying to fix
something that’s broken. Some relationships and situations just can’t be
fixed. If you try to force them back together, things will only get
worse. Sometimes it’s about starting over and creating something
better. Strength shows not only in the ability to persist, but in the
ability to start over again with a smile on your face and passion in your
heart.
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